Conformity Breeds Losers

Conformity Breeds Losers

They see you through their lens. They want you to act a certain way. They want you to talk a certain way. They want you to behave.

They want you to be a loser.

Fuck that.

You don't need to fantasize about your life. You can create it. They won't.

You don't need to give a shit about a damn thing they say. Their opinion is shit.

You don't need to do what they want. The do nothing.

You don't need to behave. You do the best you can every damn day.

They need to go away.

They don't want you to question the norm. It works fine for them, why aren't you content?

If you'd just behave, then we can all go along on our merry way. 

Individuality is rare. It's disruptive. It's not easy to dismiss.

If you'd just go along with the program and do it the way they say you should, it'll be okay. Just okay.

That's the point they miss. Okay is not good enough.

You want more out of life than to work for peanuts. You want the accolades. You want the fans. You want the success. You want the nice house. You want the nice car. You want the money. You want what you want.

You want to be able to come out from the shadows of conformity and scream from the rooftops that you're a badass motherfucker and proud of it.

And that's not a bad thing. It's a fantastic thing!

Don't let those pathetic small-minded conformists dismiss you, diminish you, talk down to you, or shit on your dreams.

But it also means you must require more of yourself. 

Don't have weak ass goals that you can achieve with minimal effort.

Your goals need to make you feel like you should probably buy a pair of diapers because they scare the shit out of you. 

Get out there and be BOLD.  Don't pussyfoot around. Don't do what they want you to do.

Do what you were born to do and nothing less.

Alycia Wicker

Alycia Wicker is an interior design business coach specializing in helping soulful interior designers attract clients with clever marketing strategies. Celebrity gossip whore.